tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9048455495603621899.post7924294889167320782..comments2023-08-09T16:58:36.232+02:00Comments on Glad to be a Girl: Feeling Bluephillygirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16618315315456011985noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9048455495603621899.post-60483653607930092812008-09-06T16:39:00.000+02:002008-09-06T16:39:00.000+02:00(((hugs))) there's not guarentees in life. Never....(((hugs))) there's not guarentees in life. Never. Not for one day or a life-time. I think it's about willing to take a risk and not the believe.<BR/>Again (((hugs)))Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9048455495603621899.post-88529673066694799112008-09-02T07:20:00.000+02:002008-09-02T07:20:00.000+02:00sjoe... strongs philly!sjoe... strongs philly!AngelConradiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09423318903817661244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9048455495603621899.post-60869207295765590602008-08-28T16:04:00.000+02:002008-08-28T16:04:00.000+02:00"I dunno, forever freaks me out. I don't know how ..."I dunno, forever freaks me out. I don't know how people just "believe". Where do they get their faith that they can weather all storms with one person. Where do they get the faith that that one person will manage to put up with all their (okay, my) nonsense for that long?"<BR/><BR/>To answer your question hun, I think most people don't know for sure - they just hope. Once the fairytale crumbles, which happens to all of us at different times in our lives, all that's left is the knowledge that it takes a hell of a lot of hard work, and maybe also a bit of luck, for a relationship to go the full distance and for both partners to remain happy.<BR/><BR/>I think what's more important that forever is for-right now. By that I mean that both of you are 100% committed to the relationship as it stands this minute, and that you commit to the future together as far as you possibly can. <BR/><BR/>That's not to say you're giving each other an easy way out should you change your mind, but rather that you realistically concede that you can't see the future, and all you can do is work really hard one day at a time to give your partnership the best possible chance.<BR/><BR/>That's all any of us can do, and you know what - many times, that's enough! But I think worrying too much about forever puts incredible pressure on a couple. So many things can change, and so many things are out of your control. <BR/><BR/>Worry about the things you CAN control, and you'll feel a lot better about things.<BR/><BR/>Mwah xxxLopzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04746662835146630607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9048455495603621899.post-77733706963175033852008-08-28T09:06:00.000+02:002008-08-28T09:06:00.000+02:00@all - thanks guys :)@tjf - eep!@all - thanks guys :)<BR/><BR/>@tjf - eep!phillygirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16618315315456011985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9048455495603621899.post-29405544498174528152008-08-27T19:42:00.000+02:002008-08-27T19:42:00.000+02:00Aaaaahhhhh Philly, I hope you feel better soon. So...Aaaaahhhhh Philly, I hope you feel better soon. Sounds like a rough patch.<BR/><BR/>You know, I only realised who the love of my life was AFTER I had had Jackson and by that time he'd got some other girl knocked up. Now THAT'S regret.The Jackson Fileshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12962205570202909270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9048455495603621899.post-83104104561270079972008-08-27T13:23:00.000+02:002008-08-27T13:23:00.000+02:00no regrets!!... our experiences make us who we are...no regrets!!... our experiences make us who we are... better people, hopefully :)Sweetshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05362438172459556642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9048455495603621899.post-10975648104703395772008-08-27T10:08:00.000+02:002008-08-27T10:08:00.000+02:00Hmmm... you do sound blue. It happens to the best ...Hmmm... you do sound blue. It happens to the best of us sometimes.<BR/><BR/>Strongs, my friend.Tamarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13875207633073348136noreply@blogger.com